▲Jonah Hill's ex-girlfriend Sarah Brady went public accusing the star of emotional abuse. On July 6, the 26-year-old surfer shared on Instagram a professional photo of herself wearing a white crop top and matching skirt and wrote, "Reviving a pic I took down by request of a misogynist narcissist." The next day Brady, who dated Hill between 2021 and 2022, wrote on her Instagram Story, "Someone being an emotionally abusive partner doesn't mean they're a terrible person (often stems from their own trauma) and at the same time it doesn't mean it's ok."
Brady then shared several screenshots from past alleged conversations with Hill, 39, including one in which he asked her to remove photos of herself surfing in a swimsuit from her Instagram, claiming that he was "not comfortable" with it, though Brady shared previous DMs in which he liked those same photos.
Hill allegedly wrote, "If you need: Surfing with men, boundaryless inappropriate friendships with men, to model, to post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit, to post sexual pictures, friendships with women who are in unstable places and from your wild recent past beyond getting a lunch or coffee or something respectful...I am not the right partner for you. If these things bring you to a state of happiness I support it and there will be no hard feelings. These are my boundaries for romantic partnership."
Brady agreed to let Hill "pre-approve" her friendships with men and the photos she posts, then wrote over the screenshot of the conversation, "This is high key so embarrassing. I did this all in the name of protecting him from crippling anxiety." In another Instagram Story, Brady shared a screenshot of a conversation with a friend in which she told them, "Psychological abuse can cause just as much damage. Especially to someone with a generic mental illness like me. I was probably a perfect target for him, having been recently diagnosed with bipolar type 1 disorder and towards the end of the relationship when he was running out of ways to manipulate me, he started questioning my sanity and my medications." Hill's behavior has stirred a public debate about men using therapy-speak to justify manipulative emotional abuse, and therapists have chimed in online clarifying that a boundary is not a free pass to control another person's behavior but rather a healthy, reasonable limit a person sets for themselves.