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A good therapist should never make you feel like you’re being judged.
Some therapists will talk about any emotional response the therapy process with you has in them, but this will depend on the therapist.
Just like with any other profession, you have good and bad professionals. Don’t let your experience with one person taint a whole class of mental health professionals.
Therapists are trained to listen, and to make you feel comfortable about sharing whatever you wish to share. Once you start, you should have no problems sharing.
Remember, therapists are human, and as such you might not have found someone who resonates with you.
Cost is relative, depending on what you spend money on and how much you want to invest in your well-being.
If you have problems in your life that affect you much of your time, then perhaps an hour or two per week to actually try and address those problems will save you time.
The fact that a partner has an intimate relationship with you is in itself a form of bias. Plus, you don’t want to dump all your emotional baggage on the person you’re with, right?
Talking to your friends is great, and therapy is by no means a substitute for it. But the relationship with a therapist is not the same.
Again, it’s great that you have a partner that you're comfortable sharing your feelings with, but the relationship dynamic with a therapist is quite different.
But a therapist can help bring new perspectives to your problems, and help you understand and manage how you feel.
Not every form of therapy is long-term. And even if you’d benefit from long-term psychotherapy, there should be an end to the process.
A psychologist won't be able to prescribe you any medication. The only professionals that can do so are psychiatrists. So unless your therapist is a psychiatrist, you won’t be prescribed any drugs.
There are usually directories of accredited therapists you can consult. Look for the representative and/or regulatory body in your country and they should point you in the right direction.
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You can talk about whatever you want. You don’t have to necessarily complain about something or someone.
Seeking help when needed is, in fact, a sign of strength. It takes a lot of courage to recognize that you might not be able to handle certain things on your own.
Plus, psychotherapy has no physical side effects and you aren't at risk of becoming addicted to medication.
Therapy is confidential. A professional psychotherapist has to abide by a code of conduct, which includes strict confidentiality rules. Under no circumstances should any personal information about you be shared.
You don’t go to the gym because something is wrong with you, right? You go to improve yourself.
In the same way taking an analgesic drug will only mask the pain and not treat the problem, taking an antidepressant or anxiolytic will only treat the symptom.
People choose to be therapists to help people, so it’s likely that most therapists do care about their patients and genuinely want to help them. There are far more profitable professions out there.
Therapy is similar. You don’t necessarily need to have “something wrong with you” for it to be beneficial for your life.
A trained professional will offer you insight that your friends don’t have and help you think in different ways.
In fact, this is one of the things that can really help you: talking to someone who won’t judge you. If you ever feel this way, you should be open about it and discuss it with your therapist.
It is true that in some cases you do need to take drugs, regardless of going or not going to therapy, but sometimes this can be avoided.
You are correct: a therapist is not a mechanic and you’re certainly not a broken car that needs to be fixed.
Therapy is a way to keep our mental health in check, and can be very beneficial in certain circumstances. We see our doctor, our dentist, and some of us also pay for a personal trainer, so why not do the same for our mental health? There is still some stigma attached to therapy, and while increasingly more people are recognizing the importance of mental health, many still haven't given it a chance.
Browse through the following gallery and see if any of these reasons not to go to therapy resonate with you or perhaps someone you know.
Reasons why people refuse to go to therapy
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Therapy is a way to keep our mental health in check, and can be very beneficial in certain circumstances. We see our doctor, our dentist, and some of us also pay for a personal trainer, so why not do the same for our mental health? There is still some stigma attached to therapy, and while increasingly more people are recognizing the importance of mental health, many still haven't given it a chance.
Browse through the following gallery and see if any of these reasons not to go to therapy resonate with you or perhaps someone you know.